Lifes Dysfunctions

I hear it all the time in the rooms of A.A., "Get a sponsor", "Call your sponsor everyday", and "Don't make any decisions until you talk to your sponsor".

I heard one fellow in the rooms of A.A. say, "My sponsor told me to call him everyday." He replied, "But you're out of town for the next two weeks?" His sponsor replied, "I said, you're to call me everyday. I didn't say I would talk to you everyday!"

Incredible! I couldn't believe my ears when I heard this pathetic 'bromide' touted as a sound strategy for helping the newcomer recover. Furthermore, I hear other "sponsees" share about how dependent they are on their sponsors for advice and counselling on medical, psychological, financial, legal, and relationship matters. "They won't make any decisions about anything until they talk to their sponsors." It's no wonder why the rooms of A.A. are wrought with co-dependent members unable to function independently without being hand-held and spoon-fed their sponsor's "pap" for some indefinite amount time in the program of A.A.